He aha ke ʻano o nā kaikamahine e hoʻohana ai i nā mea pāʻani?

I ka wā ma mua, hilahila ka poʻe i ka ʻimi ʻana i "mea pāʻani makua” ma nā pūnaewele kūʻai.

ʻO ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana iā ʻoe iho me he kapu hiki ʻole ke ʻōlelo ʻia.E kapa ʻia nā kaikamahine e hoʻohana ana i nā mea pāʻani makua he "kūpono" a "ʻaʻole aloha iā lākou iho".

Akā i kēia lā, hiki ke kūkākūkā ākea a ākea.

Hōʻike nā hōʻike i ka lilo ʻana o nā wahine i mea ikaika nui i ka mākeke pāʻani pākeke, a ua hoʻokomo ʻia nā mea pāʻani makua, e like me nā mea hoʻonaninani, i loko o nā papa kūʻai kūʻai a nā kaikamahine.

ʻO ia hoʻololi nui e noʻonoʻo ai ka poʻe, he aha ke ʻano o nā kaikamahine e hoʻohana nei i nā mea pāʻani makua?

1. ʻO nā kaikamāhine e kū pono ana i ko lākou makemake

No ke aha lākou makemake e pāʻani me nā mea pāʻani makua?Hiki ke hōʻuluʻulu ʻia i hoʻokahi huaʻōlelo i hoʻokahi huaʻōlelo: "hauʻoli".

ʻO ka makemake moe kolohe, e like me ka ʻai ʻana a me ka hiamoe, ʻo ia kekahi o nā pono physiological instinctive o ke kanaka.ʻO ke kamaʻilio ʻana no ka moekolohe ʻaʻole ia he mea e hilahila ai nā wahine.Nā mea pāʻani makuaHe mea hana maʻamau wale nō ia e hiki ke kōkua iā mākou e hoʻokō i kā mākou mau pono physiological maʻamau i kahi ala maʻemaʻe a maʻemaʻe.

I kēia mau lā, hoʻomaikaʻi ka ʻike o nā wahine i ka makemake.ʻOi aku ka nui o nā wahine e aʻo nei e alo iā lākou iho, e ʻoluʻolu iā lākou iho, a koho i nā mea pāʻani makua e pono ai lākou ma o ke kūʻai ʻana ma ka pūnaewele.

2. Haʻahaʻa makemake moe kolohe a pono e hoala

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole kūʻai nā kaikamahine a pau i nā mea pāʻani makua iā lākou iho.I mea e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i ko lākou ola moe kolohe, nui nā keikikāne e lawe i ka manaʻo e kūʻai i nā mea pāʻani makua no kā lākou mea nui.

Ma muli o nā ʻokoʻa o ke ʻano physiological, loaʻa i nā kāne a me nā wahine nā manawa like ʻole i ke ola moe kolohe.Ua like nā kāne me nā ʻōpuʻu kukui e ʻā koke a e ʻā koke.Hiki koke mai nā manaʻo a he mea maʻalahi ka loaʻa ʻana o ka leʻaleʻa.No nā wahine, hele mālie ka manaʻo.ʻAʻole ia he mea hoʻonui i ka ʻōlelo ʻana he "simmering ma luna o ka wela haʻahaʻa", ʻoiai ke haʻahaʻa ke ʻano.

A laila i ka manawa hoʻomākaukau, hiki i ke keikikāne ke lawe i wahomea pāʻani makuaa hana i kekahi foreplay, a ho'āʻo e hoʻonanea i ke kaikamahine i ka "appetizer" e like me ka hiki.I ka wā o ka pāʻani maoli, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i nā mea pāʻani makua ma ke ʻano he kōkua e hoʻonui i ka manaʻo o ka leʻaleʻa.

3. ʻO nā kaikamāhine e hauʻoli pū me kā lākou mau hoa

ʻO nā kaikamāhine e manaʻo nei he luʻuluʻu ko lākou ola kino, e koho ikaika lākou e hoʻolauna i nā mea pāʻani makua e hana i kahi manaʻo hou no nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua.

ʻAʻole hiki ke pale i ka hala ʻana o ka manawa.Ke lilo ke ola wahine i hana a ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi ke leʻaleʻa mai ia mea, me ka hoʻohui ʻana o nā mea pāʻani makua, hiki i kekahi i kekahi ke loaʻa hou i ka "breakthrough" a loaʻa ka leʻaleʻa maʻalahi.

Nā mea pāʻani makuahiki ke lilo i mea paʻa o ke kamaʻilio ma waena o nā kāne.ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o nā mea pāʻani makua hou e like me ka loaʻa ʻana o ka wai hou.